In martial arts novels, one of the best players in martial arts novels is steel and iron, but there are always one or two places that will be put to death.

Over modest

If you never think that it is a mistake to dissect yourself in the office, it would be awful for your boss to have the impression that you need to improve.

This is often because you trust your instincts too much and feel good about yourself.

What is even more frightening is that it is even worse to meet a boss who hates your shortcomings.

Blow your own trumpet

Contrary to the fact that some office women, because of their lack of confidence, blow their own trumpet to determine their position in the hearts of their colleagues, or to attract the attention of their superiors.

Women who know how to prove their worth are courageous, but if you sell your desires at all times, they will definitely make a very bad impression on your colleagues and bosses.

After spending some time with you, people may think that you like to blow your own trumpet, but ignore your other strengths.

In fact, your practice often gives people a lack of energy and a strong sense of bragging.

When examining you, the boss will give you a discount on your ability.

Often play "crying game"

Experts say, "at least 50% of your credibility in the office comes from your performance in front of people."

This shows that you can "listen" and "watch" can do or not, and your real ability to work equally important.

Any unprofessional performance, such as blushing, crying, little girl voice, or even inappropriate clothes, will push your professional image to death.

Many experts have warned us that playing a crying game in the workplace indicates that you are doomed to failure. If you are tearful in front of the boss because of your work, it shows that you lack the ability to cope with work stress, and it is even more doubtful that you can not represent the company's image.

Experts say: your boss is not your parents, not your psychologist.

So if you lose your way, take a deep breath for 5 seconds, simply say "embarrassed", and then return to normal.

Can't control my tongue.

In an active working environment, a boss always wants someone to express his opinion on the plan he proposed.

However, if all your meetings are heated, you will pour cold water on your enthusiasm. Then, the Democratic boss will also put you in the "cold palace" of another type, such as assigning you to a quiet secondary job.

Therefore, if you are a natural "opposition", you must try to change it, learn to force yourself to remain silent, and don't rush to speak out your pessimistic remarks, otherwise it will only ruin your mood and make your boss more firmly against you.