Yin Pu received his master's degree in psychology from California State University. I have been studying and living in the United States for 22 years, and I have been engaged in psychological counseling and mental health education for many years. He has an active mind and amazing language, and there are always some interesting "evil tactics" to relieve people in the workplace.

Two weeks ago, Miss Li, a working girl from a foreign company, found Miss Yin Pu, who said she was under too much pressure at work. pressure From my boss, he rushed into my office several times a week and was furious at me. It might be a few minutes. The result was that all of my life was messed up because of these few minutes. I feel very depressed. Do you have any evil trick to help me?

Yin Pu said, "actually, Boss There is a reason for him to do so. The boss is more stressed than you. Therefore, it is no good not letting him vent. You only have two tasks, the first task, you let him out for five minutes, and second, don't pick up his displeasure. You are taking it right now. As a result, he has let it go, and you are unhappy for a few days.

"I will teach you a trick now, making movies or cartoons in your mind, the funniest. image The better, for example, you can imagine the boss as a hooligan rabbit, a hooligan rabbit holding a little fat hand, jumping up and down in front of you. What is it like to lose your temper in front of you? Second strokes, you can also put the movie backwards, and think of the boss's words into a comic dialogue box, all of which are called "small balloons", which contain curse words. Let's put this upside down and imagine that the boss swallowed his words in one gulp. Finally, a more evil trick, you can imagine standing in front of you is the boss has just come out of the shower naked, naked, and seriously criticize you. With these tips, you will feel very funny, then you will feel happy, but you can not laugh, so it looks very gentle. "